THE MIND GAMES and THE REAL GAME

It always confuses me a little bit and I am not sure if I get it right each time I hear that I seem TRUE to somebody else. And today it stroke me that in today’s world, unfortunately, we are all constantly required to be someone else. Because of that we rarely have a chance to get to know our true inner self and learn how it is to be and to feel REAL.

From time to time, I also hear people’s stories on how much pressure their jobs are putting on them, because these jobs require them to be at work someone stronger, more decided and confident than they really are.

From time to time, I also hear that some people are afraid of quitting their jobs, even if these jobs are destroying their private lives and heath, because they are afraid of stepping down from “the top of the game” and dedicate their life to something else. Why so? Because the time they practiced in their lives being somebody else and their thinking mind convinced them that this is the only true and only important game they can play.

And it always confuses me, because what kind of games are out there?
I mean the real games, that EXIST FOR REAL?

The only real game I know, and trust me that despite my young age I knew lots of them, is the game that we all play and it’s called “saving our souls”.

There could be nothing more TRUE and REAL than following your talents and gifts and fulfilling your life’s purpose. You were not given your talents without a reason. Your life means a world and, believe me, it can change many other lives if only you let yourself be guided and you start to trust in your life path.
To start being able to value your own life path you really have to stop comparing it with other people’s life paths.

But this is difficult.

Our society is built on comparing people with other people. Ask a mother of a newly born child if her child is better than the other newly born children. I think that many mothers would find this question confusing because each newborn child is equally beautiful and wonderfully different.

But in time we have school grades, university tests and other ways of comparing one life to the other. And in time, many parents, teachers, guardians start to think that some children are “less” or “more” than the other. And, of course, children sense it and start to think accordingly. And if they feel “less” they strive for the feeling of “more”. And this can be very destructive to their future life.

Unable to value their true inner selves they will always look for the sense of fulfilment and acceptance and for the sense of value in the OUTSIDE.

Because these concepts are built by our thoughts, and are kept alive by our ego they seem very important to us, and hide behind many masks. One of these masks is being so called “A Level” kind of person.

This mask makes you think that you are better than other people because you are more ambitious or more motivated or have better skills. This is a very spacial state in which you really idealise your own ego and your imaginary abilities and the fear of loosing it and not matching it anymore can make you restless in your life.

We all see people that find happiness only for short seconds when they buy a new dress, get a new car or when they achieve something, or get a promotion at work, or start a relationship with a new partner. Or when they are simply better than other people. But the base of this happiness is baseless because it comes from the outside and because of that it usually vanishes very soon. And the feeling of emptiness and the need to look for fulfilment in the OUTSIDE lasts.

That builds a false concept that we all have to have only one goal and have to equal to the others by any means. And by doing so, we stop being US and we start being SOMEONE ELSE. And this “someone else” is never real.

I see that in these days people are no longer true, and so many of them are afraid of showing their true emotions and how they really are. So many of them are not even aware of their true emotions and feelings any more. And this attitude, based on acting, building false “beings” – building next false layers on the TRUE YOU and pretending – is totally incomprehensible to our horses.

You cannot act in your life with other people and in your life with your horses from that level. It will only bring noises, cracks and distortion in the line of communication between you, other people and your horses. Other people may not notice it, but your horse does not need to communicate with you. It means that if your horse senses that that the base of this communication is built on a lie and thus is baseless – THAT YOU ARE BASELESS – he will stop communicating with you.

Because for your horse matters only the things that are for real.
And if you are not real you mean nothing to your horse.