There is no place for aggression and control in Nature. And all Nature is showing us that each and every single day.
We see it clearly with our horses – when they simply won’t come to us on the paddock or leave us during liberty training as soon as we feel anger or frustration. We experience it at it’s fullest when our family hack is not as smooth and nice as we imagined because suddenly we started to be angry at our kids or at our spouse. What is more, we see it also during our everyday life when it’s hard to have a good and productive day if we are simply angry.
It’s very easy to see weak results coming out of any action taken out of aggression, and how much such state it’s not supported by Nature when it’s so visible and obvious for us.
But there are 50 shades of aggression, and each and single one of them is still the very same aggression.
If you feel anger at somebody because he did something opposite to what you have planned…
If you feel anger at your horse because he simply doesn’t follow your training plan…
If you feel anger because your horse didn’t do something, despite the fact that he always did…
If you feel anger because other people train and are with their horses DIFFERENTLY TO WHAT YOU HAVE IMAGINED or DIFFERENTLY TO WHT YOU BELIEVE IN…..
– It’s still the same aggression and your actions won’t be supported by Nature.
What is more – you are not only denying right for all people and all leavening creatures on this planet to experience their own Life Path and realise their own growth and development as Nature has planned for them. YOU LET YOURSELF THINK THAT YOU ARE NATURE and that you can decide what people should do and how they should develop their lives in order to fulfil their destiny.
THIS IS A VERY SERIOUS PROBLEM.
And I see it everywhere…
I see it in the petitions written out of anger to stop some other people from realising what Nature has planned for them and their horses,
I see it in the fury with which people talk about other people that train horses not in the way these people see as THE ONLY ONE AND THE ONLY TRUE WAY OF BEING WITH HORSES, etc.
The aggression is everywhere.
It’s feeding itself. It’s self reinforcing.
It’s growing bigger each time you let the anger takes over you.
It’s cheating you that you can control anything.
It makes you forget that the only thing you can change in the world is yourself.
And that changing yourself is enough to change the world.
It made us all forget that THE ACTION IS LINKED WITH IT’S EFFECT BY NATURE, not by human.